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I lack self-discipline. There are many reasons for this, none of them important now. The fact remains: I don’t need to discipline myself, besides basic practices like going to work in the morning. I can buy whatever I want, exercise if I want, and watch movies if I want. We all know that, but what about the subtler cases? I don’t actually buy anything I want. I don’t eat McDonald’s at every meal. But I do […]
A Personal Plea From Me To You
I’ve been reading personal improvement books lately. They’ve inspired me to pass along a recommendation that I hope you–yes, you, reader–will take to heart, think about, and implement. Stop watching TV. Completely. Give your TV(s) away, if you can. “But there’s good stuff on TV,” some proclaim. Yes, there is. There’s also good stuff in books and in movies. The problem is not the content; it’s […]

Why I just canceled my NetFlix account
Growing up, I always wanted to be a writer. (Queue 5-minute reverie about Goodfellas, which is exactly what I want to talk about. The reverie, not the movie.) When I was a kid, I’d read a great book and think, Man, I’d love to be a writer. Just sit there at my desk and write. Mug of tea next to me, open window with the breeze gently blowing the curtains. Even when I started writing seriously […]

Brother, can you spare a dime?
As I mentioned yesterday, I’m broke. Almost literally. Lots of assets, no cash. This was driven home to me yesterday evening, after work. I stopped by a gas station on my way home to fill up my truck with gas. My debit card didn’t work, and neither did any of my credit cards. All denied. To be fair, several of those cards I paid over the weekend just as their due date came up, so […]
What should my contribution be?
Read this today in Peter Drucker’s Managing Oneself: Throughout history, the great majority of people never had to ask the question, What should I contribute? They were told what to contribute, and their tasks were dictated either by the work itself—as it was for the peasant or artisan—or by a master or a mistress—as it was for domestic servants. And until very recently, it was taken for granted that most people were subordinates who did as they were told. […]

Suburban Self-Sufficiency: The Backyard Homestead
I may be moving soon. My new job at NASA (squeeee!) requires a minimum 75-minute commute twice daily, usually in heavy traffic. While I’m okay with the drive itself–having grown up in this area, I have to be–I’m losing too much time. Even with audio books, three hours a day on the road is too much. So I’ve been looking at houses near Goddard. One is a small house […]
Technological Manic Depression
Some days, I seek hyper-technology. I want to engage folks on Twitter, post on my blogs, and clean up every broken link on my websites. The online world feels so vibrant and interesting. On other days, I want to give up everything more advanced than a clock/radio. I want to sit down with a big stack of books and a hot mug of tea, or throw wide my kitchen cabinet doors and fire up the stove. The online world feels so shallow […]
Homemade Stuff
I like to make my own stuff. I’d love to make my own furniture, clothes, etc., and I’m starting with food and daily household items. Here’s what I currently make myself: Food (very little homemade in the past few weeks, as I focus on finishing up my RPG materials for the month) Laundry detergent Fabric softener — I use 1/4 cup of baking soda in the basin and 1/4 cup of vinegar in the dispenser. Dishwasher detergent — Unfortunately, […]
Your Focus Needs More Focus
This line from the 2010 remake of The Karate Kid (“Your focus needs more focus”) has been spinning about my head lately, as I went through another round of reducing my active projects. Great things come through focus. Demonic focus, as Tom Peters calls it. But focus doesn’t mean 18 hours of work every day. It means concentrating on one and only one thing at a time. Now, I’d […]
Energy
A personal proposal: Physical Energy Maintenance: Every night: 5 minutes of Tai Chi, a 30-second push-up, a 30-second sit-up, and a few minutes of strength training with an infinite resistance machine. Three times a week: 20 minutes of running. Emotional Energy Maintenance: Every morning: 5 minutes of journaling. Spiritual Energy Maintenance: Every week: Church attendance, and helping out with church youth group Mental Energy Maintenance: Every night: […]